Next week- the final installment!

I was feeling very turned on last night, but my husband didn’t make the moves on me. Then, after I went to bed, he stayed up and I suspect he masturbated. Why didn’t he make the effort to seduce me instead?

The reason married men masturbate has nothing to do with finding their partners unattractive. Sometimes, sex while pregnant can just be unsettling for a man. He still adores you and finds you beautiful and sexy, but the bumps and kicks emerging from your pregnant belly can occasionally make the intimacy of sex seem wrong – like there’s a third person in bed with you (and not in the way he fantasizes about!)

Don’t be surprised to find your husband totally insatiable and into your sexy, pregnant body one minute, then unresponsive the next. He has to put up with your mood swings. It’s only fair you do the same in return!

I followed the X-rated links my husband had been visiting on the Internet and found some really disturbing stuff. How can he be turned on by this sort of thing? It’s disgusting!

A person’s sexuality is like Pandora’s Box. Just read the Kinsey Report or Nancy Friday’s books on sexual fantasies. You’ll see that both men and women get aroused by some pretty outrageous things. A woman following the X-rated links her boyfriend or partner left on the computer can often find herself on a pretty disturbing journey into his most private sexual fantasies! Just remember that there’s a firm line between fantasy and reality. A man can fantasize about the wildest things when he’s moments from climax, but never dream of wanting to make those fantasies a reality.

If you’re really concerned, have an open and frank discussion with your partner about his sexual fantasies – and be brave enough to share your own (no matter how twisted they seem!) Just remember to be open-minded and never judge him by what he shares with you.

The good news – when a couple is open enough to share their most personal fantasies, it can often result in mind-blowing, sexual dynamite afterwards!